If a child discloses abuse, which of the following is NOT an appropriate response?

• A. Promise the child that you won't tell
• B. Listen to the child and document what is said
• C. Report to the appropriate authorities
• D. Reassure the child that you believe them

Answer: (A)

When a child discloses abuse, safety and getting help quickly is the priority. The right approach is to listen carefully, document what is said, report to the appropriate authorities, and reassure the child that you believe them and will help keep them safe. You should not promise to keep the information secret. Promising not to tell can prevent the child from getting protection and can be illegal in many places, since professionals are required to report suspected abuse to safeguard the child. Instead, explain that you may need to share what they’ve told you with people who can help them, and then proceed to report and document as required. By listening nonjudgmentally, recording details accurately, and following reporting rules, you support the child while ensuring they receive the protection they need.